I am curious and have a lot of questions about Jewish people and history, but as a non-Jewish person I want to avoid treading on toes.

Are there any things I should avoid when asking questions here?

I noticed some people typing G-d, is this something I should follow?

It's hard to pick up subtleties as an outsider and as the site is already quite well established.

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As long as your question is about Jewish stuff, you're unlikely to offend anyone. On the old site, some people stirred up disfavor by asking questions about other religions. That would be off-topic here, too.

Using "G-d" instead of "God" is not universally considered to be obligatory or even necessarily a good idea, especially on electronic media. You can use either convention here without offending.

In general, don't be shy! The worst that can happen is that your content will be edited, and you'll get some feedback. That's what SE is designed for!

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Just wanted to point out that R. Joseph B. Soloveitchik, as quoted in Nefesh HaRav (or perhaps it was Mipneni HaRav), made the point that the takanah from the geonim to treat all references to God with the same respect as the name of God (which was the reason the Rav's father would not enter the bathroom with US dollars) would apply equally to anything that was intended to reference God, even, for example ***. According to this, using G-d instead of God doesn't help. – LuxuryMode Feb 18 at 0:13

We welcome questions about Judaism. You will probably get many answers. They will probably conflict. Welcome to Judaism. :-)

A couple things you might want to watch out for:

Try not to call our bible the "old testament"; that's a Christian term. You can call it the Hebrew Bible or the Tanakh.

Similarly, we aren't unwilling to talk about Jesus the historical man (if it's a Jewish question, e.g. what practices might have been common in his time/place), but "Christ" means "messiah" and you probably want to avoid calling him that.

Some people write "G-d", some "God", some "Hashem" (literally "the name"). You don't need to fret over the hyphen; the people who write "G-d" do it because that's what they do, not because that's what they expect you to do.

This is more of a "mindset" thing: We don't tend to think of ourselves as being deprived because of halachic restrictions. For example, it's not that we "can't" eat bacon; it's that we "don't", because God said so. (We do not mind in the least if you eat it.) Ditto all the other laws that may seem restrictive from the outside (not working on Shabbat etc); we accept, and ideally even take joy in, the laws that God gave us. So questions of the form "why can't you do X" are likely to be met with "because God said so"; to dig into how the laws about X came about or how we apply them, you might want to try asking in those terms (e.g. "how is 'work' that you can't do on Shabbat defined and where does it come from?").

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Nice list. Where'd that last one come from? – Isaac Moses Sep 1 '11 at 19:26
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I've had several non-Jews take pity for my "food allergies" (that's how they talk abouot them) who don't seem to grok that I choose to follow these laws. I assumed that if it happens to me it must happen to lots of other people, but maybe not. Anyway, I figured I'd mention it because the mindset seems different; from the outside people think Judaism is all about the "thou shalt not"s, and it's much richer than that (as you know :-) ). – Monica Cellio Sep 1 '11 at 21:47
Well, for one, I can't eat bacon - but that's pretty much the only thing... ;-) – AviD Sep 3 '11 at 22:50
@MonicaCellio - Sorry, I'm not sure what the word grok means... – Adam Mosheh Jun 14 '12 at 15:26
@AdamMosheh, it means to understand and is a Heinlein reference. Programmers use it a lot, and Monica is a programmer. – Ze'ev Felsen Oct 28 '12 at 4:57
On the last point, I was discussing just this with a Reform friend over the summer. She thought her Orthodox friends said that they can't when she would say she chooses not to. After thought, I related this to the generally poor understanding of 'can' and 'may'. – Ze'ev Felsen Oct 28 '12 at 5:00
@Ze'evFelsen, I agree with your diagnosis. (Adam, sorry about the unintentional jargon. Ze'ev is correct about what it means.) – Monica Cellio Oct 28 '12 at 15:01

Yes, there are a few things that are outlined in the faq; the bottom line is that questions should be practical and answerable (as with other SE sites), nothing too open-ended. Outside of those guidelines, I think that as long as your question relates to Jewish life and learning, you have as much of a right to ask questions as any other member of the community (whether they be Jewish or not).

The '-' is just a way people cope with writing G-d's name in a medium that will be erased (in some abstract sense it is cleared from the screen). I don't think it is your responsibility to pick up on these obscure nuanced practices in order to ask questions on this site. I hope that as this site continues through beta it becomes a welcoming environment to people (Jews and non-Jews alike) to ask questions about Judaism.

I am interested in hearing what other members of the community answer; great question!

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